Families are believed to have a strong disciplinary system from the father and not the mother, but what about those mothers who raised us with no jokes around, chasing you with a big cane to help you shape your character.Those are the mothers who are proud of their children.
They say, spare the rod spoil the child which is true to some point until some parents started to misuse this say by pouring their anger on their children.Do you know what really happens when you beat your son or daughter until they bleed? That is a police case straight away.
We don’t deny a parent from disciplining their children but what if you hit and kill? Whose fault would that be?
But still I support the discipline our parents gave us, it was heavy but they disciplined you with caution not to harm you but to correct you. Talk of the current era, the current generation of ‘don’t you hit my lovely angel’ even when they have messed up completely.
Parents are digging there own graves, by this I mean, why would you say that in front of your child and yet you know they have messed.
One thing all of us should understand, the human brain is very clever,a child will always learn how you react to whatever they do and so they do it deliberately to scoop up your anger to the surface and there they will know how bad you can react to various situations that find them on the wrong side.
Your son or daughter will live to know even when they’re in a mess, they won’t undergo any discipline case.Later in life,they will commit the worst of the worst and you won’t be able to rectify them and that will be either the end of you or the end of that ‘angel’ that just turned to be the devil.
Basically discipline is necessary but to a certain level of it, not to hurt your child but to rectify them.
By MONICA KEMUNTO.
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